How Do you Signal that you Want FS at an AMP?

Jun 21 2012

Although this might seem like Asian Massage Parlor School 101-- a lot of readers e-mail questions stating "how do I let the provider know that I am interested in more than a massage?" (Many guys get mistaken for being LE).

Here is a quick and dirty list of the most common ways to NOT be mistaken for LE.

1) Come alone to the AMP

2) When they ask if you have been there before, always say..Of course I have!

3) Always leave your money in plain site, including the tip...it helps to read the prior reviews on RubMaps so you don't overtip! Let's keep the prices down guys!!! (Although, if you get an outstanding out-of-this world experience, you SHOULD tip extra).

4) Let her know you are interested. Smile. Make small talk. Offer her a massage.

5) Do something inappropriate that they are used to...massage her leg, go for a titty, grab her buttocks.

6) Tell her you want it. You are the customer. The worst thing she can do is say NO!

What else have I left out? Experienced mongers on the board..please help me by chiming in with your favorite ways to signal that you want FS from a provider!

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pahmad :

05.11.2017 18:55:30

No, actually the worst she can do is tell you she's a police officer, and you are under arrest!

newman87 :

05.11.2017 04:52:18

I leave a condom on the floor and play a a sexy jazz music like in the porno movies. She laughs and I pick up condom and put it in her back pocket and smack her butt. If she returns it I say it's for you and insist on her keeping it. If she returns it anyway I leave it right next to me on the table. That reminds her to think about it. If she leaves it in her pocket better. Half way I say can I have my condom back, so she know it's time to use it. When she hands it to me I pretend to open it and nod.

longdongsilverbbc :

12.11.2013 19:57:13

Just say Fucky Fucky Sucky Sucky works every time.

dr-stan-lee :

11.30.2013 05:29:08

not too long ago while in the military, I frequented the on base massage parlor in Afghanistan (yes, the big bases have them). There are signs that explain the military punishments for touching a girl or showing your cock, and the girls were pretty much there for a job. I built a rapport with one of the girls and went almost weekly. We always had conversation during my 60 minute stress reliever. I was flirty, but never crossed any lines. She always commented how my body was always hard and it made her hands hurt to massage me. One day she brushed her arm on my hand and I told her that she was very soft. I asked if I could feel her arm and she let me. Another time she asked me how often I went to the gym and I told her 6 days a week, she told me that she never goes, so I took the opportunity to tell her that she was very skinny and had a nice body. She grabbed a hold of a tiny bit of stomach and said she was fat. I smiled and asked her to lift her shirt so I could see and she did, I asked to touch it and she let me. I was amazed. The very next visit she asked me if I liked her and I said yes, and asked her if that was a bad thing. She said no and kept massaging me. y the end of the massage we were holding hands and she gave me a hug and kissed me before I left. I went in the next day and caught her on a break. I asked if she would like to get together and fool around. She said yes and I took her to an office building late that night and we fucked the life out of eachother. a good rapport pays my friends.

gentleman4u :

10.02.2013 21:47:11

I went to one place and got a nice massage but no more even though I hinted heavily. Tipped 40. Went back two weeks later and asked for same girl. took the table shower so she had me naked. Didn't get anything else but tipped 40 again. She gave me her cell # and said be sure to call her for the next appt to be sure I got her. I think she trusted me at that point and felt I tipped good for just a massage but in the meantime I found a good provider that gives good massage and FS so haven't been back but probably will try her again. It takes some patience but it usually works by the third or fourth visit. If not then it won't happen.

gentleman4u :

10.02.2013 21:28:00

I have often thought I know the cops read this, we need to be careful about getting our favorite AMP busted.

goose2u :

10.02.2013 10:08:30

Lol I must not look like L E I've only been to about 10 2 a massage parlor I've been offered full service at least 5 times on the first visit

hairypussylover :

09.14.2013 07:38:25

Yesterday I went to a place where I have gotten a he but decided to see if fs is available. On the flip I got up grabbed aÂ cover and donation. She was stunned but then locked the door and removed her pants. I pounded it for ten minutes or so. Now I will say this: I am probably slightly less than average size 5.5 inches or so. Or maybe I am small. Whatever. Not small but definitely not big. I always see the Asian women grimace when entering. My point being they could scared to have a larger cock. I am speculating. I have had one atf tell me her pussy is very small and takes a couple minutes to get my less than average unit all the way in.

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moonshadowrunner :

09.13.2013 18:57:57

As soon as you are led to a room you get buck naked. If they look at you funny, get mad or say they are not that kind of place, tip them 10 bucks and say thanks anyway and move on. then come straight here and warn the rest of us. If you've gotten naked and she comes in with you in full view and you aren't covering up, see what she does. If she has you get on the table, then start letting your hands wander. If she's having none of it, get your massage, give her a 20 and be on your way. Again, come tell us about it. There was a place in Longview tx. that I tested. It was legit. I left the woman a small tip and drove emmediatly to Dallas. There are places like this that open up just to dupe us mongers by looking, for all intense and purposes like a real Rub and Tug. If you get suckered the best thing you can do is tell everyone else about it. That way when you see a new place you want to try out, it may already have reviews here and elsewhere. Happy hunting.

hairypussylover :

09.12.2013 16:48:08

This is an interesting topic. Where I live in rarely put reviews of having FS. But, I have had FS in 7 different mp's. Sometimes on the flip I just get up grab a condom and the donation and say let's go. Sometimes it takes a little pleading but they do agree. If they say secret don't put on Internet I will agree. Sometimes it takes a couple sessions to get comfortable. It helps to know their language and ymmv.

bigmac808 :

03.04.2013 01:16:20

Who goes to an AMP for a massage only??? When I go to an AMP, I am usually already undressed and just standing there, sometimes with a hard-on, until the provider walks in, then I hug and kiss her while playing with her ass. They always know what I am there for.

montanajim :

03.02.2013 22:16:11

If I am at a new place after undressing I will like on my stomach with no towel drape. If she drapes me I just tell her I do not want a drape and pull it off. Once she starts massaging me while standing at my head I slip my hand gently on her calf and ask "All right to touch"? I have never been refused and so then I start rubbing her leg upward until I am carressing her ass. On the flip I tell her to let me give her a massage and have always been met with a giggle as she strips for me and lies on the table. Then the fun begins. You just have to be gentle but never be afraid to ask and act,

hefbsm :

03.02.2013 00:02:02

About the LE action in MP, some of them will do everything that regular guys do first and then comeback to raid the place. So there is no guarantee that a john is a john by certain actions. She just have to be smart about who to give service to. Its a bitch but many cops are not above deceit. And that also means that johns have to be smarter consumers to protect the sources. Again some johns are asses that don't care about the working women safety but most guys do give a fuck, pun intended.

robertabooey :

02.28.2013 15:04:26

i rock out with my cock out!!!!!!!!

garsexcite :

02.27.2013 20:48:42

Agree with previous post that being generous to a point is in your favor, but too much tossing of cash might look like a setup. The body language you show and the touching and caressing of parts you can reach and her response will clue you to her comfort level and lessen the likelihood you are thought of as trouble.

felancelan :

02.27.2013 16:32:59

I usually tip the mamasan $10-20, depending on the reviews and extras (back page adds as well if they have them). Start off the massage naked no towel and see if the masseuse is ok with some light touching (legs/ass) and flirting, I give them a generous $30-40 tip while still naked and then ask if I can get some extra service in another 30-60 minute session. It helps if you also ask for something out of the ordinary for example have them use their nails during a light massage, the more you try to stand out the less likely you seem to be LE.

lones2000 :

02.17.2013 17:25:20

So far there has only been one place that has turned me down and it was because the msm was giving me a massage before closing. I never say I have been there before if I havnt because the ones I goto dont have my "race" in that area often and they can pretty much tell if im lying. I always try to have a convo and usually make my dick erect enough to where she can see it when im layin on my stomach or I wait till she comes in to start getting undressed and tell her to come help me out. I dont rub on her legs or ass or tough anything because I dont want to be so forceful because that can turn a chick off unless shes old as fuck lol

creamlicker3 :

02.17.2013 17:22:23

lol, i usually have my johnson saluting before i get their, when i undress, and lay on the table, (always on my back), johnson is saluting them when they walk in. trust me, they know, lol

funtrust :

02.16.2013 10:58:08

For males, keep moving your hands till she tells you to stop or asks what you want For starlight, I would go into a place that you have seen reviewed here,does HJ or FS for men, and ask the MSS for a women who likes to massage women - then lie down with no towel, and do what we do. On the filp, start rubbing her leg higher and higher and see what happens. When she is near your stomack, and goes light, move her had to where you want it. They have seen it all, and may send in a different gal to take care of you. Good luck and report back.

trent :

02.16.2013 07:03:21

Just get naked and wave your meat in the air (I'm serious). No LE would ever do that and it turns on the girl.

calidickhertz :

02.15.2013 17:36:48

Get naked face down on table. LE is never naked in AMP.

dementus666 :

08.15.2012 09:42:01

Starlite, you may need to diy the first couple of times. If she leaves the room, she's probably not into providing a lesbian experience. If she starts massaging your breast during you diy, she may end up doing it in the future. On an aside, this is coming from a straight guy and are purely speculations. You're probably better off asking other lesbians and compare experiences. Oddly, I did try asking one of my regular tug girl if women will want a happy ending, and her response is she never had one requested of her. But also by her tone, she was also implying I shouldn't pursue this line of questioning, so I moved onto a different topic.

thomas.6528 :

08.14.2012 21:13:03

Since this blog is still going, I will give some more hints. I usually go to a place several times before making any requests for HE, BJ or FS. If you ask for it first, you are soliciting and subject to arrest if the provider is an undercover officer. Keep your mouth shut and enjoy the massage. When the girls feel comfortable, they will ask you. I had them ask at the first massage and several at the fifth massage I am prior military and still keep the military haircut, so I look like LE and that scares off some of the providers. After I had several HE's from the provider, I will ask if they do more such as BJ or FS.

qwert1 :

08.14.2012 20:19:42

If on their website it says "No sexual contact" is that always true?

parkerrobbins02 :

08.14.2012 18:29:08

How do you let them know you want BB, if you haven't really established your tipping standard?

starlite718 :

08.03.2012 14:42:21

Ok....So I'm a woman and I would like to get a sensual massage.. I recently went to one and she did a great job. She spent a lot of time massaging my ass (which I really enjoyed), but when I flipped over she made sure the sheet was always on. So what do I say when I go there to let them know I want them to massage more than my ass rubbed?

da1400 :

08.02.2012 15:36:46

Best way polite and agressive silently..meaning roam her body after 10 massage. I dont discuss money or services or ask her dumb questions like How many work her, how much do you make etc.

luvasianmassage :

08.02.2012 14:38:08

Hug when you're being walked to the room. Do a little grab ass. Be forward but don't be a jerk. Enjoy 10 min of the massage and relax. Then start caressing wherever you can reach. Offer to give them a massage especially if you arrive late before closing. They will love you for it.

edog :

08.02.2012 11:57:29

Stroking your cock always tells them your not le

mr.chen :

07.22.2012 16:13:35

People to go to an Asian MP with the ASSUMPTION of HE. Therefore, no need to be ashame because the girl herself knows that all male customers assumed that. So the only thing left to do is CONFIRM. Just ask her directly "is it your usual practice to give handjob?" If she said No then decide then whether to walk out or try out her massage skill.

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paranoia :

07.11.2012 00:03:56

Bring your own condom?

unknow32 :

07.10.2012 17:16:28

i personally always just come straight out with it. be very flirty but respectful it goes along way. im also insanly shredded too most deff helps.. still nvr free tho -_-

tonysanders987 :

07.10.2012 06:44:23

For #6... what is the best way to protect ourselves from solicitation? Is, not saying anything and instead doing the "motion" safer?

f-man :

07.08.2012 21:36:03

it says i want fs on my t-shirt...in chinese.

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chinarub :

07.08.2012 12:35:38

i wait till they leave, get undressed as they say and when she walks back in i hold my arms out for a hug...if she goes for it my hands grab her butt a gently squeeze it and tell its nice...lets her know i am cool and not LE cause they cant touch as far as i know..

limcat :

07.08.2012 02:19:03

Anyone try palm reading a friend called one and was asked what type of girl asian thai, korean and it threw him for a loop.. He is a gypsy and said I never thought of it most are open 24hrs a day.. just a wierd one..

persian_stud :

07.07.2012 23:13:37

I agree! The way the girls are clothed says a lot!!! Look for places with dresses or skirts walking around. They get back to back customers so they will need something to get on and off FAST and in case of a surprise visit from a local PD. (Why can't the police just freaking lay off? Nobody is getting hurt and its extremely private!!) Secondly, I agree with the leg grab. Massage her legs a bit and try and go for the kitty (clothed or not). Don't be aggressive though. Arch your buttocks when they get lower. It doesnt hurt to be a little flirty and break the ice first. My last MP I went for a boob grab (cupped her breasts) AFTER the massage by the front desk!!! She giggled and said I should come back when shes here. ALSO! your first visit should be quick and cheap! You want them to see your face, determine you arent a cop, and get a feel for what type of a client you are. Don't expect much the first visit from a MP- unless its literally a CUM and Go type of place.

asiantailseeker :

07.05.2012 14:39:16

While massaging my back, I arch it and lift my ass when she gets near it... On my back, I'll put my hand on her ass. If she starts above my head, I'll put both arms up and around her. What happened to free HJ in San Diego? I haven't been in a while but I used to ALWAYS get free HJ as part of the price. I'd only start to pay when I wanted more. PS - Because of my money situation, I cannot afford to pay. Too bad you can't sell more advertising and offer free accounts as that would increase the interest and, ultimately, I can save my pennies for a good girl somewhere.

ravens530 :

07.05.2012 13:27:33

As usual Mongo...I doubt your ethos. I do not agree with #2 or 3. It is better to be honest...they catch you in a lie, and your done. Also lay out a FS tip, and you could find yourself with a $100 hand job. The best way to help out in receiving FS, is to go to a place that you know offers it. It is very easy to deduct through research where which places after it, and the ones that simply don't.

bend :

07.04.2012 20:59:27

one way is to ask ,when they come back to room if you can wear thear pantys and bra , this breaks the ice.

thomas.6528 :

07.03.2012 16:28:59

Follow up on prior comments. The local police raided four AMP's recently, arrested nine providers because they were offering FS. The police admitted they looked at website reviews and went after those locations which the poster talked about FS. So I am going to be a submarine and keep low and not post comments on my local AMP's in order to help protect them. I want to say to previous statement, I have found Chinese AMP's more than willing to give HE's, BBBJ, CBJ. CFS and BBFS. Look for girls wearing shorts or short dresses.

cyclstd :

07.03.2012 08:35:19

The biggest clue for me is the clothes they are wearing. If they are wearing blue jeans or pants, they probably will not do FS. If they are wearing a skirt which they can take on and off real kwik (mini skirts are a dead give away) then more than likely FS is on the menu!

iltfa :

07.02.2012 17:05:14

I always like to grab their cute little bottoms when I visit a new Spa or whenever I am given a new girl.

r_u_serious :

07.02.2012 10:56:15

Guys who wear womens panties and/or enjoy the woman playing with their butt has to be a bi sexual at the very least. So any straight guys actually enjoy either putting on womens panties and having chicks play with their butt?

soulbop :

07.02.2012 09:47:31

You left out the slip and slide between her thighs...cut to the chase and then be casual and cool. You are paying for good service.IF she is lazy or bored, don't tip at all...find another amp that is more on top of their shit.

dull_boring :

07.02.2012 09:45:22

Wear women's panties and that works? Sounds like just setting someone up for embarrassment. Would love to hear if works for anyone else.

r_u_serious :

07.01.2012 17:39:03

you wear panties?

r_u_serious :

07.01.2012 17:37:37

Pinkpanties5, you wear womens underwear?

r_u_serious :

07.01.2012 17:36:50

Pinkpanties5, I have a question for you? When you say you wear panties, you mean womens underwear?

pinkpanties5 :

07.01.2012 12:01:07

I wear panties and am totally perfectly groomed down belo--almost trimmed like a girl---they know I am not LE wit hthe panties so it always works if the place really does it.

mutantsailor :

06.30.2012 14:06:11

Besides the caresses as I arrive, and rubbing the legs, anytime they get close to the boys I say, "I like, I like".

golfer92236 :

06.30.2012 10:22:06

I cannot access reviews....blurred

jerry2021 :

06.29.2012 16:50:15

I seriously doubt anyone has to worry about informing "LE". And even using terms like LE is silly. The first time I heard some friends ask if I knew where to get some trees, I said "What the hell are trees?" They said weed. I said why didn't you just say weed. They said "So the cops don't know." Trust me, if we know they know. Most cops just don't care about these places or visit themselves off duty.

mrdean408 :

06.29.2012 13:32:51

I pull down her panties and fuck her, that usually gets the message across...

fellow_traveller :

06.28.2012 18:29:36

I put my hand on her leg and 5 seconds later I put my hand on her ass, and since I only do this with RA in dresses, I put my hand under the dress to check out her under ware. Not a complicated exchange. I have not yet been rejected.

kseeker :

06.28.2012 18:13:26

Interesting blog indeed. I tend to give a LE vibe, and so I have to give the obvious signs of my interests. Like some others posted, for me personally, I dont want the FS, but a HE and sometimes CBJ (if she's cute). When asked if I have been there before or not, I am honest. If I haven't been there, I will tell them "No, but I heard a lot about this place". As for sending signals, like so many others said, make the move and give them a brush on the leg or thigh -- but do so respectfully! If you start grobing for her boobs or ass, it may totally turn her off and destroy your chances. Another obvious signal, as some mentioned, manscape. That sends an undeniable signal you are interested. Along the lines of being respectful, be freshly showered and have fresh breath. A mint goes a long way. Lastly, dont play hard to get. If she "accidently" brushes you, make it obvious you want more -- spread your legs, moan, tell her you like it. If she is standing next to you and is standing very close to your head, she is telling you "I'm open, you can touch me". If you play hard to get, you probably won't get another chance. I dont flash my money, just in case LE is present. Oh, another good idea is to read the reviews, have an idea of what to expect, and know some of the girls names! (that will tell them you know other providers there). Anyway, usually works for me.

didismith42 :

06.28.2012 08:05:23

Very interesting blog. The comments are great and provide excellent insight. I am not going to repeat what other people have already said but I am going to caution the obvious. If you are desiring or expecting a HE don't go to a Chinese MP. Most of them will not provide an HE but will simply tease. The tactics below are great but only if it is even possible in the first place.

arthurmcgonagall :

06.25.2012 11:30:17

do you wear underwears? or go commando? does not wearing underwear signal anything?

eversnow64 :

06.23.2012 07:22:49

Also, a thought on not getting busted legally. Don't talk about services and then exchange money. If you tip beforehand, and just pray that she knows what you want and need, then you have a good case if there is a sting. Thats how Escorts work. You are paying for their time, you pay them up front. Anything after that is what happens between two consenting adults. Same thing if you take a girl out for dinner and a movie, cant be considered prostitution if you got back to her place and Fuck. Dinner is the pre-service tip lol. Sorta the same concept. Know what i mean? Hope it makes sense.

eversnow64 :

06.23.2012 07:12:11

Uhm your #1, i thought that would be an obvious no brainer. I just think it would be awkward with a good friend in the next room. I wont make this long because i agree with most of these posts. Call me lame but i only want HE. no FS or CBJ for me. SO, i usually pay with a $100 bill then take $40 and make it obvious that i am putting it on the table for a tip.

thomas.6528 :

06.22.2012 15:35:42

Regarding about posting on RubMaps our experience's at a certaim AMP. I live in a city where the police have a special unit that actively goes to the AMP's with undercover officers and have made arrests and shut down several AMP's because of the mayor. That is why I don't post my favorite places. I amy go into the neighboring cities and post there because they have 100's of AMP locations there. If a post is plain jane, it protects the provider but then we don't know what service will be given to use. I have found that just going to a place one time and see what you get. Leaving $100 out and a condom is a good indication of what you want and they will accept or reject the offer. That is why I go to my main locations on a regular basis, I know whom I am dealing with and what I will get.

the violator :

06.22.2012 11:23:40

When asked if it is my first time at a place, I say "no" , then I tell them a place I been to that is KNOWN to be a bit on the playful side (my area hardly has any asian FS places and mainly rub tugs)and say , "never been here, my regular was packed so I thought I would give this place a try.. over there they treat me well.. REALLY special.". facial gestures smiles and winks give a hint what I am talking about, perhaps I need a neon sign with an arrow point to the little head reading "Blow... this.. Blow... this.. blow this!, blow this!".

bchbm :

06.22.2012 11:12:34

Lots of astute observations and sage advice from Mongo and others below. imho, it is pretty obvious by the way the girl is dressed and how she massages you. Personally, she has to be really hot before i'd even ask. @thomas. : agree with your last post and quandary, how do we let other mongers know of our best experiences without alerting LE?

jerry2021 :

06.22.2012 10:48:32

How would you know how much money to leave out? I've heard the extra ranges from $80 to $140 in the same town I live in. Leave too little you might not get what you came for and at that point you could have used that money to buy a girl drinks at a bar.

ampfan619 :

06.22.2012 09:37:50

Have to respectfully disagree with illini96 regarding whether you should say you've been to a place when you really haven't. There was a girl who was getting tons of rave reviews on this site at an AMP near me; when I went in, they asked if I'd been there before, and who I'd seen. I said yes, and named the girl. But she actually came in to the room, saw me, and realized she'd never seen me before. They totally thought I was LE and I ended up leaving a very dissatisfied customer. During my first-ever visit to an AMP, meanwhile, I acknowledged I'd never been before, and still left with what I came for. Just my two cents.

sweetmeat1200 :

06.22.2012 07:28:42

usually some OTC roaming will do it, or when she is getting close to the boys i just wiggle my butt so she understands where i want her to rub.

silver2000 :

06.22.2012 00:24:14

#1 - I've been many times with no more than 2 others and we each have had no problems with FS, the key as you stated is to not give off an LE impression. If it looks like a LE, talks like an LE then... #2-This only works if the places has been open a decent length of time and there are many girls, or just tell them that you have not been to that place but you have been to other places, just be prepared to name them off or say they were in other places they don't know. #3-I never bust out the jacksons until a deal is reached, or I feel they earned a certain amount. #4-Forget this one and go straight to #5. #5 -This is the LE check, after this you will have an idea where it will go. I think the norm here is to rub the real estate on the rear or legs. Reaching out to other places may warrant a slap even if FS would be provided. #6-Do not do this unless you do not plan to return-ever. NOTE: all statements above will not "signal" the provider for FS. This is just so that they will not suspect you of being LE therefore if they offer FS they will be more likely to offer it themselves. In some of my experiences where I spend alot of time and money with the same few providers the actual purpose of going takes a backseat to pleasure for both parties where a simple question regarding FS is asked....can I or can't I?. Or if you're lucky you can find a horny granny one that will jump on you and dry hump you in the cowgirl position until she nuts to start your massage.

thomas.6528 :

06.21.2012 22:49:09

One extra comment and I know the other mongers are going to hate me saying this, but I never post anything about my best location or providers because I don't want the police to close them down. I may go to other areas and post about those locations but I am trying to save my best locations. The more you post about the service you get, I think the police will look at the location more closely.

thomas.6528 :

06.21.2012 22:44:55

Computer messed on my previous post, so here goes again. Come in clean, treat girls with respect, always pay a good tip (I may get a massage only the first two times but then HE or more afterwards). Leave the money and condom exposed for the girl to see. Undress slowly so girl comes in while your'e still naked. My #1 locations have the ladies undress me when I go into the room, get the massage, etc and then they help me get dressed when time is up. I give them a kiss on the side of the face and hug them. Treat them like family but know it is fake because they want your money so they do what they have to do.

thomas.6528 :

06.21.2012 22:38:04

Since I just started mongering three months ago, I don't have a good system in asking FS. I have done it only 2 times. The first time was during a massage which got hot and heavy and had to make an appt for the next day because I didn't have enough money for the time. 2nd time was at another location and I just asked for FS. I have five locations that I go to on a regular basis because I feel safe with the girls there. I get HE at these places, get to suck on tits at my #1 and #2 locations, told can't touch at #3 and haven't tried yet at #4 or 5. I agree, come in clean, treat the girls with respect, talk to them as a person. When I first went to #1 & #2, they gave me massage only even though I tipped $40 each time. After third visit, I was getting He and began to grab the boob and suck on it with no resistance, however they still don't want me to touch the kitty,so I don't.

mutantsailor :

06.21.2012 20:18:15

Also, since I can't lie (my nose grows), when asked if I have been "there" before, I say no, but list others in the neighborhood. They know what/where their competition is.

mutantsailor :

06.21.2012 20:14:58

I let them know I want more leaving my bills in plain sight (#3),

prkr_cj :

06.21.2012 14:42:35

Manscape! You'll be surprised how many chicks I've had go down on me just because they're impressed with how nice and clean and trimmed I am down there. Good Hygiene is just as important - would you want to do anything with some chick who smells like a tuna fish who has been smoking cigarettes? Brush your teeth, chew some gum, eat some mints!

illini96 :

06.21.2012 14:01:35

Agreed with all of those tips Mongo. I especially like to do 3 and 5; I think you're all but guranteed at the minimum a HJ if you do those. Also #2 should be a no-brainer - always say yes and if they ask who've you seen mention a name or two. This is where it truly helps to do your research on sites like these: you know the general descriptions of the girls and you know the going rates for the various services. And one more thing I'd do: show them cards from other AMPs; that's telling them you're experienced at going to their businesses.

djbau5 :

06.21.2012 12:52:48

Good input. Just to add a few to that list This is may one of the most under looked things that may or may not get you a FS. Personal hygiene. It goes a long way. Don't come walking in like a filthy bus rag, because 1. it sets off the mood for the girl real quick and 2. You might not receive the service you were expecting to get. Yes some places provide showers before hand, but this is a hassle and can take time off the amount of time you paid to the house. Second, as for the FS...It depends. If you are going to a reputable MP (Hey why else do we have this site for:]), FS is a no question thing. It's just a matter of tipping @ that point. Prices will depend, but keep in mind, standard tip for a FS is usually $100 (negotiating is fine, but try not to low ball unless the service was just really bad. If it was good, and you're trying to lowball, its comes off as disrespectful and makes you look like a sleezy cheap stake, and your name will certainly be spread among the other girls), anything over 100 is your preference which may include any extras you asked for. Third point...which is a continuation of the 2nd paragraph..And rarely said on here. Depending on the MP and girl...Now some...Just some girls might get uncomfortable with being asked directly for a FS. It's not about providing the service that is the issue, but the liabilities...Such as thinking you might be LE and it might be a sting operation. A way to get what you want without being directly up front with them and to show them you're not sketchy, is to (as already mentioned in the blog)...Give the girl some body gestures. Smile, make small talk, give her a little massage, perhaps gently move your hand up to her thigh area. Anything that isn't too abrasive, yet gentle, that lets her know what mean business. It'll also help her feel more relaxed and comfortable making her and your job that much more easy. Lastly...Most important advice that can be said here is...Whatever happened in the vicinity of that 12x12 room stays in that room (other than posting a review on here). Last thing all of us need, is that one idiot yapping about the place, resulting in unwanted attention thus forcing the MP to close down. It's happened before and it certainly wont be the last. To be sure it won't, we must do our parts, in being smart, respectful, and understanding to the Mamasan's establishment...Because after all, it is they who provide the service we seek for. Either this, or some overpriced sketchy chick from the backpages, you pick. So please be understanding, and always be aware of the rules. Other than that, I think all the points have been covered (pun intended). GL and HF

luvasianmassage :

06.21.2012 12:01:23

When she comes back in put $40 on the table. Look directly at her and say "I want a Really, Good massage.". Also if you ask for specific person on first visit she might ask how you known the name. Just say my friend Steve told me you're great.

dementus666 :

06.21.2012 08:15:57

I haven't been denied at a fs shop yet, but I have been denied at rub and tugs. The first one, I gave an LE vibe. And the second, when asked if I had been there before, I said no. Though I would have taken a hj, the girls' looks there didn't interest me. So I would not have gone back either way. On the otherhand, I went to a rub and tug where the girl was so ugly, I didn't want a HE. I figured I tip her a ten then go to my aff. But because she wanted the tip money really bad, it got to the point where she offered a cbj. I took it but regretted it. The bj was underwhelming.

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